No I'm not pregnant or trying.
With that said I wanted to touch on this topic because I have been asked a lot when/if we are having another baby.
When we got married we said we would have 1-2 kids. That hasn't changed and now we are definitely in the what do we want to do stage.
Right now my main concern is my insurance. With private insurance we have to add maternity coverage one year before it starts taking effect and it is expensive! Holy up charge Blue Cross (you suck).
The other main concern is another pregnancy for me. Since they don't know why I had a pre-term labor with B they can't really say if it will happen again. I would be high risk and be monitored closely. Hormone shots would probably be necessary and any signs of something off I would be on bed rest. Bed rest with a special needs kiddo would be very hard on us.
Sometimes I think I could be perfectly happy with one child (I'm an only child) and some days I think it would be awesome to give B a sibling and expand our family. It seriously changes on a day to day basis depending on how I feel that day. Hard day,s no way we are done. And easier days, hell yeah let's have another now.
So basically when it comes to #2 we are undecided.
I know we have the added stress of raising a special needs kiddo but I hear every mom has the unsure feeling when they decide on a second.
Were you on the fence ever? How did you bite the bullet and go for it?